Raven Rock Report

Raven Rock Report | October and November 2018

In my silent moments of reflection about where Raven Rock Ranch has been and where it has come, it astounds me. I am humbled by its tremendous growth as an organization, the many supporters- financially, emotionally, spiritually and good old-fashioned hard work- but mostly in the real value it brings to a hurting generation of kids. I am so very grateful for it all!

In the past seven years, I have had many teens tell me that they would not be alive if not for Raven Rock. That stops me in my tracks. I never forget that I am on Sacred Ground when I am here at the ranch. Saving lives, helping children who are in pain find healing, is so much more than I dared to hope for those 7 years ago. But I feel and know that the work we do here is not work we do alone. It is authored by a caring and loving God who has commissioned us to open the gates to all- no matter who they are. All I really bring to this enormous task is obedience, hope and a steadfast belief that we will do great things when we follow where we are led. We ALL have so much faith here at Raven Rock; in the horses, the program, each other and the kids who come.

Trauma is the root cause of so many “disorders” as well as diseases. I have spent my professional career studying and researching trauma. In the 1960’s the AMA (American Medical Association) and the APA (American Psychological Association), made a shift that rocked the world of mental health. Previously, it was treated as adaptations (or maladaptation’s) to dealing with the complex and confusing world we live in. Now, it is defined as a sickness, or “disorder.”

There are children who come to the ranch who have been able to stop taking those drugs and cope with difficult life situations. We use an entirely different approach- we use the sensations in their bodies to help them feel that they have some control. They can feel more confident and capable. They can devise plans to cope with stress in a healthier way than they have in the past. When they do this “bottom-up” approach (through their bodies) they retain it because it is intrinsic learning- internal, and not external.

Fear is the greatest stressor that we see. We see it in the kids, the parents and the horses. One of our very first children who came to the ranch was a young boy who was adopted from another country. A week after he arrived, we got a new horse at the ranch. He saw her behavior- running hysterically around the area she was in, eyes wide, and it worried him.

He asked me, “Why is she so afraid?” I stepped back mentally for a split second.

“She has just arrived here,” I replied softly. “She doesn’t have any of her old friends and she doesn’t know anyone. She isn’t sure if we will treat her well or if we are mean.” I paused for a moment… “Was it like that for you when you came to America and to your new family?”

His inquisitive young face immediately grew in wisdom, understanding and resonance.

“Yes, it was…” his voice trailed off, feeling her confusion and a sense of knowing that can only come from experience. “Let’s give her some carrots!” he grinned at his solution for her stress. It certainly helped her, and also helped him feel a true connection to another being that knew his fears so well.

The very next week, this boy cautiously brushed her (he had been too afraid to touch a horse before this) and, feeling the bond of shared trauma, our new horse leaned into his chest with her head. They both took a deep breath. That is why we adopt horses who have had their share of abandonment and fear. They know our kids and our kids really know them.

THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW:

  • RRR began with 1 horse and 1 child 7 years ago
  • The only Facilitator at the time was me
  • We now have 10 horses and 4 Facilitators
  • We have served close to 1000 people since our inception
  • Our first fundraiser netted $9,000 (and we were ecstatic!!)
  • This year our Annual Dinner netted almost 10X that amount!
  • THANK YOU ALL WHO ATTENDED AND GAVE SO GENEROUSLY!
  • Our sponsors are many and dedicated to helping families heal
  • We began with 1 volunteer and now have 23 beloved volunteers
  • We are now able to receive grants from foundations
  • We are SO BLESSED to have you in the Raven Rock Family!

Thank you all for your continued and faithful support over these amazing years. I have often invited you to the ranch to see for yourself the lives changing for the better. That invitation is open-ended. We would love to have each of you come out to meet the herd. And receive a well-deserved Thank-you hug 🙂

Love and Blessings,
Sandy

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